There are different ways to poise your brain to go into orgasm mode, and one of those is by simply breathing.
Your brain and body are super closely connected, and sometimes if you can get your mind turned on enough, your body can follow.” To add to that, certified sex coach and sexologist Gigi Engle calls that intense focus on pleasure “erotic hypnosis.” She tells Glamour that “erotic hypnosis” is basically a “guided meditation that has a sexual vibe to it so that you can get your brain sexually turned on enough to orgasm. “Arousal is important-some people can fantasize to orgasm-many people squeeze their legs together, putting indirect pressure on the genitals, and/or rock their pelvis rhythmically.” “ Orgasms actually take place in the brain, which is one reason why you don’t have to be touching yourself with hands to have one,” Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations, tells Glamour.
How to go about hands-free orgasms, toy-free: But first, let’s talk about hands-free orgasms and how they happen, because, while adding remote-controlled sex toys to the mix makes things more fun and versatile, you can achieve these toe-curling O’s in a few ways. You can even reach orgasm using your brain alone (seriously), leaving your hands free to play with other feel-good parts of your body, like your nipples, neck, butt-you name it. With recent tech like remote-controlled vibrators, you can step up your game and get yourself off hands-free, using Bluetooth tech, apps, and other unique touchless toys to achieve pillow-clutching orgasms. By this point we can all agree partnered sex isn't always necessary to have yourself a good time in bed.